


Well, we did it. 2910 miles sailed from Puerto Vallarta to Hilo, Hawaii. It took 24 days plus a few hours (I haven't yet bothered to figure it out). We felt that was pretty fast for a boat our size. We tried to maximize comfort over speed, so it seems that much faster to us. We rarely saw full sails, we were mostly reefed and flew the stays'l instead of our full jib. Additionally, every night we reefed down, in order to try and ensure nights without drama or the need for sail changes, so we could maximize sleep, then we would shake reefs out in the morning. It seemed to work pretty well, there were just a couple of nights we needed to wake the off watch crew for help on deck. Pretty important since we are short handed with two junior crew who sleep through the night and need parenting during the day!
We settled into a pretty good watch schedule for us. The boys sleep about 11 hours at night, so Tor and I tried to split that evenly between us. I went to bed with the boys, all three of us in our double berth, around 7:00 or 8:00 and Tor stayed on watch until 2:00 am when he crawled into bed and I was on watch until the boys woke up at around 7:00 or 8:00. We then each took a nap during the day. We felt reasonably rested most of the time. Though it turns out Tor had a heck of a time actually napping, so he was quite short on sleep.
The boys were amazing about keeping themselves occupied and happy when Tor and I were either occupied with boat related activities or when one parent was napping. In fact, they were an absolute pleasure. The worries we had about keeping them occupied, or them getting cabin fever were for the most part unfulfilled. It was grand.
The passage was pretty rough on Tor. He never entirely got over his sea sickness. When he was down below, he usually felt pretty lousy. He was definitely most comfortable up on deck, despite the fact that it was pretty wet with the rolls we regularly took that allowed gallons of water to come in our scuppers (it drained out immediately, from the scuppers on the other side and the cockpit drains, she's a great, seaworthy little ship). So Tor was mostly up on deck and in charge of running the boat. Since I was capable of being down below, and felt good, I took care of running the family. Ensuring we had food to eat and clean dishes to eat it on was challenging in our rocking and rolling boat. I did learn a lot about what worked and didn't, so I am feeling pretty empowered about that part of voyaging.
One of the most important strategies for making the passage work for our family was to develop a routine. We all benefitted from that. Things dos get a bit monotonous now and then, but the days actually went by pretty quickly when measured by the clock of meal times.
The toughest part of the passage for me is that things didn't meet my expectations. Before we started on the passage, I assumed the first few days would be tough when the three guys were all seasick, and Tor and I were figuring out how the watch schedules would work out. I figured that after we got our sea legs and routine established that we would be in for some magical times as a family sailing our little boat across the ocean. Reading books together, baking celebration treats for milestones reached, spending time reveling in the sunshine in the cockpit together, having dance parties when the need to get wiggles out arose, and many other ideas. It didn't pan out that way, and the reality was much less rosy. With Tor not functioning at full power, running family life fell on my shoulders and I just didn't have the energy to be super mom. We were simply surviving as a family, not thriving. Tough to do for 24 days. One day about three weeks into the passage, I saw Tor smile, a
nd it was striking, because I hadn't seen that smile in a long time.
We were so uncomfortable that we started discussing shipping the boat back to Seattle from Hawaii. It would mean skipping our Alaska plans unless we could actually ship it to SE Alaska, but we were mostly okay with that. So one of the first things we did when we made landfall was look into options for shipping Yare home. When we set out on this voyage, we didn't know how we would get the boat home, but we did decide on a policy of taking things as they come, and being completely honest with ourselves about how we as a family were doing. Taking stock of the situation and being honest, shipping the boat home and potentially cutting our trip short felt like the right thing to do much of the time while we were out there.
One thing I've determined is that my emotions when I'm out sailing go up and down, back and forth as much as the waves do. One night watch I'm ready to call it quits, the next one I'm ready to keep going forever. My feelings are so intense, and directly related to the conditions at that moment. Conditions got better as we got closer to Hilo, and I started to question shipping the boat back by the time we got to Hilo, and individually, so had Tor. It's a good thing, because it turns out that shipping our boat from Hawaii is not only prohibitively expensive, but the hassles involved would also be prohibitive for us and our boat. So, shifting gears, we think we've learned enough tricks, enough about ourselves, and our boat, to make the next passage better. We certainly know now much better what to expect. Maybe that alone will make it better. Best of all, it means there won't be any changes to our Alaska plans. And after we make that passage, we never have to make another one a
gain ;).
We've been loving our experiences in Hilo. It's a beautiful town with such friendly and welcoming residents. We've spent a crazy amount of money on groceries and eating out, but that's a motto aboard our little ship...never go hungry! When I get the wifi situation figured out, I will sort through pictures and share our Big Island adventures. For now I'm posting on our satellite phone again, and the good photos are just too big for that small bandwidth.
For now our plans are to spend the next 6 weeks or so in the Hawaiian Islands. We will work our way north to Hanalei bay on Kauai for departure for Sitka, Alaska mid June. After arrival in Sitka we will spend the summer heading back south (after a brief jaunt northward to Glacier Bay) through the Inside Passage. We are really looking forward to experiencing SE Alaska by boat again, now that Lars and Odin are old enough to remember the trip and we aren't washing diapers anymore ;). Besides that, we discovered that there is a Lars island in Glacier Bay and an Odin cove in Seaforth channel. We didn't get to visit either of them when we were there in 2011, and we determined that we needed to come back. Just one more big passage to go. Here we come!
The photos included are of the off watch crew sleeping on passage while Odin and I were on the dawn watch, Lars passing the time drawing, and Odin goofing around on deck.